For a little bit of context, I started learning German in 2021 while preparing for my study/life adventure in Germany. It was a fast-paced, two-and-a-half-month-long online programme, and somehow we made it to A2. Even the teacher was surprised! I still remember my first lesson. At the start of every class, the teacher asked us…
Never thought I would write an ode to Berlin. There was a time when, if you had told me I would one day write something nice about this city, I probably would have laughed. I used to judge Berlin. Not hate. But judge hard, like my life depended on it. Why are people always walking…
Let’s go a little deeper today. Let’s talk about the origin of life and water symbolism in African traditions. Let’s talk about The Source From Below, the first tale in my book Tales for the Evening. “But it doesn’t sound like a tale…” Before the book even came out, some of my friends who read…
It wasn’t a house, a job, or a relationship that made me doubt relocating a second time, it was a face cream. I’ve always believed I’m not a tree; I can move. If I’ve done it once, I can do it twice, three times… even a fourth time. I trusted my own drive and the…
In one of my previous posts in the diaspora series, I wrote about becoming both (read here). But during my recent trip to the Western Cape in South Africa, I discovered something I wasn’t expecting: becoming different, simply by creating a new identity. I spent time in a beautiful city in the Western Cape region,…
You might be a parent in the diaspora trying to teach your children your mother language so it doesn’t fade away. Or maybe you grew up abroad and, for one reason or another, never really learned your parents’ language. Now that you can make your own decisions, you’d like to catch up, to stop feeling…
If Part 1 was about belonging, and Part 2 about homesickness in the diaspora, this final part is about what comes after both, the moment you realise you no longer have to choose. Because after the shock, the longing, the guilt, there comes a gentler season: one where you stop trying to decide which world…
This is Part 2 (Part 1) of a three-part series exploring the idea of “home” in the diaspora. These are mainly personal reflections and pieces of conversations with friends. Today’s post is about homesickness, or, as they say here in Germany, Heimweh (pronounced haim-vé). Somehow, I think the German word feels more intense, heavier, more…
This is Part 1 of a three-part series exploring the idea of “home” in the diaspora. These are mainly personal reflections and pieces of conversations with friends. Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about home. Maybe it’s because of the conversations I’ve been having with my friends, all of us scattered across the world, all…
Long before debates about gender equality, polygamy, and the Sustainable Development Goals, the Kingdom of Foumbina had its own grand saga of love and power (the book). He courted her. She refused. He insisted. And she answered: “I will love you… if I am yours alone.” “But I will be king,” he said. “A king…
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